Essay On Borrowing Money
The Borrower either entreats a loan from a friend as a favour, or receives it from strangers as a matter of business. The former plan has the advantage of perhaps giving you as loan at a lower rate of interest than that at which you could borrow from a banker. In many cases friends lend money free of interest. But nevertheless there are serious objections to this mode of borrowing. the greatest of which is that it generally has a prejudicial effect on friendship. It is very difficult for a debtor and creditor to continue to be friends.
In the first place, many persons are offended when their friends ask for a loan.
They think they are being imposed upon, and declare that they would much rather be asked for a gift outright. The man who lends money expects to be repaid, and, when he had incurred expenses in the expectations of being repaid at a certain date, the disappointment of this expectation may entail very serious consequences. If he had made a gift, he would have known that so much was subtracted from his ready money, and would have regulated his expenses according.
It is a strange fact that the recipient of a loan also is in danger of becoming less friendly to the friend who has tried to do him a benefit. He may be weighed down by the obligation, and feel resentment on account of the position of inferiority to which he has been reduced by becoming a debtor. On this account, and also from the fear of being asked for repayment, he is likely to keep out of the way of his friend and creditor. Besides being dangerous to friendship, borrowing from friends often leads to base deception. The confirmed borrower is apt to go for money to women, who are so ignorant of business that they are utterly unable to see the danger to which they expose themselves and are easily imposed upon. In this way many have been reduced to destitution by the art of unscrupulous borrowers.
If one must borrow at all, it is in some respects better to go to the professional money-lender, who will charge interest according to the amount of rich rather than to our friends and relations. By this kind of borrowing we at any rate avoid the sense of obligation, and are not tempted to do harm to those who love us by imposing upon their ignorance. In old times the debtor who could not pay actually became the slave of his creditor. In modern times those who borrow money that they cannot pay, thought nominally freemen, are virtually deprived of their independence. One loan leads to another on harder terms, until the poor debtor retains for himself only enough of his earnings to keep body and soul together, and pays the rest to his creditors.
Therefore it is well to think twice before making the first step on a downward course which may lead to such ruinous results. However, it is impossible to lay down an absolute rule against borrowing. In business we known that borrowing even on a large scale is often a perfectly legitimate operation. In private life, also, it is sometimes prudent to borrow in time of great emergency even from our friends. For instance, if a student is conscious of good abilities, and rich relative is willing to lend him money for the expenses of his education, there is no reason why he should not accept the assistance of a loan. When by honest work at school and college he has gained the means of paying the debt, the mutual feeling of kindliness between himself and his benefactor will be increased by the transaction.
There are also many other times of temporary distress due to sudden illness or unavoidable misfortune, in which it may be advisable to borrow money. We must content ourselves with clearly recorgnising the evil results that usually spring from the use of other people's money, and, if we are ever compelled to borrow, we should never rest until we have succeeded in discharging our debt.
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